Niall, I have braces, obviously we are soul mates. Harry, I have curly brown hair, obviously we are soul mates. Liam, I have puppies, obviously we are soul mates. Zayn, I have hazel eyes, obviously we are soul mates. Louis, I love Harry, obviously we are soul mates, Just kidding babe, I have a navy and white striped shirt, obviously we are soul mates.
Honestly, though, they are all so incredible in so many ways and even getting to call myself their friend would be a blessing. If only.
In my opinion love and lust, dating and being in a relationship are completely different things. I am sorry if this offends anyone but I personally don’t acknowledge “relationships” where people break up, date other people and have intimate relations with those people and then get back together as being “in love”. That is not a relationship, nor is it cute, that honestly brings shame to couples who have remained faithful and in love with each other. I see couples all the time break up, go out with multiple people and then get back with that original person and say: “ermmehgawd were sooo cutee bby”, stop, you are not and I truly believe that you wouldn’t know the meaning of love even if it smacked you in the face. And if you can have multiple intimate relations with multiple people how could it mean anything ever? It just doesn’t make sense to me. Generally speaking, being in love is wonderful and sharing such a special thing with that one person is even better, but it has been wasted and “I love you” has been used so often that the word has lost it’s meaning.
This is just my opinion.
I hate seeing all this self-hate, everyone is beautiful in their own way. Please, stop. Taking your life over not feeling good enough for someone is NOT worth it. I’ve been in your shoes before, where everything felt hopeless… like I was just stuck and I was never going to get out. Believe me, I wanted to lie in bed until my bones were sore and I was too weak to even breathe, but, it isn’t worth it. There is an entire bigger picture. The world is such a beautiful place, there are adventures and love and magic and moments waiting to be seized by you. You are worth so much. You have so much potential. You have so much to look forward to. It gets better, I promise. If any of you, I don’t care who you are, where you come from, what you’ve done or been through, if you ever just need to talk and you feel like no one is there, remember that I am. I don’t care if I don’t know you, sometimes it’s just easier to talk to a complete stranger then to keep it all bottled up. No judgement, just someone here to listen.